Okay, you're supposed to go here: http://www.livejournal.com/manage/settings/ and change the way it looks. I used to have Dystophia -- but when I changed it to Vertical or Horizontal to make sure that you'd be able to do it it made Dystophia disappear. =( That's the only way I know how to change what the message box looks like.
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Good luck honey!